Who is going to give you permission when 'adults' are no longer there?
I'm serious, who is?
When there is no longer someone encouraging us at every tough moment - and only the voice in our head left to offer any support...
Instead of giving us permission to JUST BE with the pain, with the heartache, with the fear -
that fricken voice tells us that we have to be strong - don't be a baby - get on with it - you are not good enough so get the f*ck over it & give up already...
But that is crap.
It's okay to be you.
It's okay to be right where you are right now.
It's okay to be sad, frustrated, angry, disappointed, unsure, confused, empty...
Fighting against it and trying with every cell in your body to be better, be happier, try harder, don't stop, just do it!!!!....
That is why we feel so frustrated, so confused, so empty...
Fighting against what IS in the moment - resisting REALLY feeling into what is there - is futile.
You don't need that voice in your head to tell you how to feel or what to do anymore. You can give yourself permission to just be with what is.
You can give yourself permission to slip into flow.
Because it is in REALLY feeling what you need to feel right now, that you can move through it.
It is by walking through the darkness that we reach the gloriousness of light.
No one can give you permission to stop resisting the pain. But you can give it to yourself. You can go the way of tortured resistance to what is - or relax into it and go with effortless flow of life.
Until we meet again my friends,
much love from
Where in your life are you resisting? Where do you need to give yourself permission to just be with what is? Comment below.
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